Tips and Tricks
A Snooze Routine
For that time between dinner and bed (when anything seems to happen)
Senses: Sight, Sound, Touch, Smell, Taste, Vestibular, Proprioception and Interoception
(combo of all the senses!)
It’s 7 o’clock and you need your little human to start
calming down and getting ready to go to bed. We’ve been chatting with different
mums to find out what works best for them when they’re facing this evening
battle and compiled this list of top tips that might help you too!
You need a routine.
It’s the age-old recommendation because kids love repetition
and when they know what to expect, they learn to anticipate bedtime rather than
it becoming a fight each evening. Through introducing certain activities as
part of the bedtime routine between dinner and sleep, you can create something
that is fun, adaptable and hopefully calming.
Teeth Brushing.
Not always the easiest part of the evening ritual, we’ve
heard that a toothbrush party (without the sugar and running around) can work
wonders. Have the whole family participate after dinner and make it fun —
encouraging laughter will ensure mouths are open wide and there’s a chance to
check everyone’s handy work.
Quiet Play (it’s a
good thing).
Play has been shown to be a big stress-reliever for kiddies,
so quiet play can be super effective at calming them down. Usually allow for
some time in which they don’t move around too much and everyone stays as quiet
as possible. Dimly lit rooms work best, so turn off the main lights in favour
of some softer and warmer ones (think fairy lights, or a torch with some
cellophane). Listen to some soothing tunes or read some books together (let
them pick it if it won’t take them hours, gives them some choice in a routine
they can’t control) – there are even some mindfulness techniques for children
you could try. The idea is to get comfortable and slow down, find something
squishy to rest on like a mountain of pillows or a Mushy or Cushy (sorry for
the plug — but the memory foam bean bags are like being enveloped by a cloud
and ideal for relaxing).
Under Pressure (but
gentle like).
If they’ll let you, a massage can be another element to
explore with firm pressure and slow movements. Or try our Lappy (weighted lap pad) or Snug (weighted
blanket). This is not supposed to be another shameless plug, but both our
weighted products can help calm your little ones with the pressure focusing
them and hopefully relaxing them.
The Boogeyman needs to
be evicted.
Kids have the best imaginations, so fear of lights out might be a very big deal for them — comfort them with a security object (special blanket or toy) or maybe try give your little ones the self-confidence to get rid of their own night-frights. Let them check all the regular monster spots and banish them themselves.